Supporting the Men You Love
With Dr. Jessica Gold
Supporting the Men You Love
You’re successful in your career, respected in your field, and known for getting things done. Yet despite your outer achievements, something feels missing in your relationship. If this resonates, you’re not alone.
The very qualities that make us successful in our careers – being in control, analytical thinking, and constant doing – can actually block us from experiencing deep intimacy. Recently, I had an illuminating conversation with my dear friend and colleague Dr. Jessica Gold, who shared a profound insight: “Pressure is the enemy of passion.”
Dr. Jessica is a Relationship Chemist for high net worth individuals and men in tech. She is on a mission to help men and women finally understand each other and have passionate relationships alongside profitable business.
Many of us have built our success on being “strong.” We pride ourselves on independence and emotional control. But here’s what’s fascinating: these same traits can unconsciously create barriers to connection. As Dr. Gold explains, “I was trying to control everything and needing to be right… I felt like I could never get the love that I wanted.”
Perhaps the most eye-opening revelation from our conversation was about what men really want. “They really, really want to make the woman in their life happy,” Dr. Gold shared. “That is their deepest desire.” The challenge? Many men have been conditioned to believe that vulnerability makes them less attractive. Our culture has created a catch-22 where men want deep connection but fear the very thing that creates it.
Here’s just a tiny peek at what we uncovered:
— A surprising truth about what men actually want (hint: it’s both simpler and more complex than we’ve been taught)
— The unconscious pattern that’s keeping your man from opening up (and no, it’s not about him)
— One game-changing question that can transform your relationship overnight
Plus, she shared what she calls the “Frisson Formula” – a scientific approach to rekindling that delicious spark of attraction, even if you’ve been together for years.
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Book a complimentary Pleasure Activation Call where we can explore how to apply these principles to your unique relationship.
Remember: Sometimes the smallest shift can create the biggest transformation.
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You don’t have to choose between being successful and being deeply connected.
In fact, learning to integrate both can make you even more magnetic and powerful in all areas of your life. And if you want more support here, you are going to love my Turned On Wealth Program, it’s all about creating the success of living a Turned On Life.
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Dr. Jessica is a Relationship Chemist for high net worth individuals and men in tech. She is on a mission to help men and women finally understand each other and have passionate relationships alongside profitable business.
Jessica started her career as an MIT-trained PhD chemist and neuroscientist. But, she never had a single class in how to have healthy relationships. Using logic to navigate love resulted in social anxiety, frustrating intimacy, and a crumbling marriage. So, she left academia to go say ‘yes’ to what scared her and try some of that weird right-brain ‘touchy-feely’ stuff.
She spent 4+ years in tantric and spiritual communities in Asia, studying shadow work, kundalini, meditation, and non-dual tantric metaphysics.
Today, Jessica has worked with over 500 men and couples in the field of interpersonal ‘chemistry’ and ‘bonding’. She is the founder of two companies: Bliss Science Coaching, and Digital Wisdom (co-founded with her partner Tevye Krynski).
Her work and life are chronicled in her Tedx talk: Chemistry for Your Sex-Starved Marriage. She has been featured in SF Gate, the Guardian, and the Good Men Project. Dr. Jessica dares you to believe that your sex life and relationship deserve at least as much time as working out or developing your latest AI app.
About Your Host:
My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.
My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.
My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation. I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old, Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music.
I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development.
I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.
When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes. Our confidence and body image soars.
Our relationships deepen.
And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.
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