Find Your Feminine Fire
Mentorship 

You’re ready to fall in love with your sensual self, and enjoy deeply connected intimacy with your partner. You're ready to get your magic back. 

The Find Your Feminine Fire Mentorship program is designed for ambitious, creative CEOS, Coaches and Mamas who are balancing motherhood and successful businesses - yet struggling to make the time for their relationship and their sensual selves to thrive.

Like you, they want the passion back, and to feel sexy and confident in their skin, without tons added to the “to do” list they can never finish.

You’ve likely invested before – perhaps in several programs, therapy, courses, books or tech platforms – but somehow, you still feel something is missing to consistently feel sensual in your skin, confidence in the bedroom, and deep connection with your partner.

And now … you are SO OVER not feeling like yourself… you are SO OVER feeling disconnected and walking on eggshells around the topic of sex … and you are SO OVER the frustration of knowing that there is so much more joy and pleasure you could be experiencing, if you could just put the pieces together.

Instead, you want deep, nourishing support – and a clear, uncomplicated path to move the needle … and start feeling like the sexy confident woman you know is in there somewhere.

You’re ready to fully embrace all of who you are, exactly as you are, and feel more love and self-confidence than ever before so you can take the necessary steps to bring your desires into your life. And know in every cell of your body, you are worthy of them.

"Amanda holds this highly intelligent space that is deeply informed by her experiences as a wife, as a mother, and as a woman. And she combines that with this incredible feeling of unconditional love and support and profound softness. So if you have the chance to work with her, she is one of our most talented and skilled graduates that we have seen, and I highly recommend anything and everything that she does."

- Layla Martin, Founder The VITA™ Method

"Her warmth, poise, and grace are extraordinary, and being in her care taught me the importance of pleasure and how it can transform our lives by making us more alive, free, and authentic. Amanda is one of a kind, and I recommend her to anyone who has the chance to work with her."

- Kyle Melody

"If you’re considering working with Amanda, you should absolutely do it. I came to her after a divorce, wanting to reconnect with my feminine energy and build better relationships. Not only did she help me with that—my relationship has blossomed, and I feel like a completely different person—but the work we did also impacted every area of my life. I’m handling work better, enjoying my social and creative life again, and no longer worry about falling into old patterns. This experience has been amazing, and I’m so thankful for the gift of working with her." 
- Allie B.  

There is no time like the present to make changes and to immediately start living a more pleasure filled life. It’s possible to Find Your Feminine Fire again, even if it feels scary and intimidating. (I know; because I’ve done it – and my clients have, too!)

This program is all about reconnecting to your needs, your energy and the spark inside of you…and following a proven process with simple actions to help you reignite your sense of sensuality and intimate belonging.

Now, maybe you’re thinking,

 “It feels so uncomfortable to talk about these things, I’m worried about feeling shame or embarrassment!” 

OR

“ I’m worried about changes in my relationship, what if this makes things worse instead of better” 

OR
“Maybe it’s just not that important, and I should just be grateful for what I have” 

OR

“ Even if I do this I’m afraid things won’t change”

But here’s the truth: After a decade of working with overwhelmed women, I see time and time again that we all have similar struggles. No matter what it looks like on the outside, so many women feel stuck in the routine of life.

The good news is that it ABSOLUTELY doesn’t have to be this way.

I’m here to help you remember who you truly are. The magnetic, powerful, confident feminine, sensual Goddess inside you just needs a little dusting off.
Our culture never teaches us how to value and nourish our sexuality as a vital part of our overall health and wellness.

Our conversations and your journey here will be held in the strictest confidentiality. This is your journey, and you're in the driver's seat. We'll approach each topic with sensitivity and respect.

Plus, we'll incorporate elements of fun and discovery along the way. Remember, this process is about empowering you and helping you embrace your true self.

Change can indeed be daunting, but it's also necessary for growth. Whether your relationships evolve or remain the same, the key is that you'll be more in tune with your needs and desires.

You'll have the tools to navigate any situation with confidence, and that will empower you to make decisions that truly serve your best interests.

The Find Your Feminine Fire framework leads you to find your unique version of sexual thriving,

WITHOUT a pushing and forcing you to do things you don’t want to do
WITHOUT contorting yourself into someone else's idea of what sexy is,
WITHOUT having to travel to Bali for a 2 month retreat.

Instead, you’ll be discovering how to feel confident in your own skin and in expressing your sexuality, and enjoying the freedom that comes from self-acceptance and empowerment, and the ability to assert your needs and boundaries without fear or guilt.

There’s a sea of information out there on how to “get your sexy back”— and if you’re reading this … you’ve likely invested in programs, therapy, books, etc. to show you how to do just that.

As someone who values authenticity, truth, family, doing good in the world, making a difference, expression, and being creative, this isn’t your first personal growth rodeo.

But if you’re anything like (many of!) the women I’ve run across, you may have invested in programs that did one of two things:

Gave you lots of information … but still left you feeling there were “gaps” in the process, or unsure how to use the tools or techniques. (Perhaps it also left you feeling a bit confused about the next steps to take — how to actually implement these things in your life)

And/Or

Focused on “surface level” embodiment things, or Spiritual coaching without addressing the deeper issues around sexuality, or past hurts or blocks that feel like they are still standing in the way of your current pleasure and connection.

I created Find Your Feminine Fire to combine the best of all I’ve seen and learned after a decade of serving thousands of students and hundreds of clients … without unnecessary busy work … or unrealistic expectations.

The best part? There are simple ways to incorporate this powerful, empowering framework into your busy life.

Step 1: “Create Clarity” – Plant Your ‘Soul Seed’ Desires
In exploring your ‘Soul Seed’ archetype, you will get laser lucid clear on what you want, and create the aligned action plan to get you there. Our desires are our compass. It's time to put YOU first so you can better serve your mission on this planet.

Step 2: “Cultivate Compassion” – Honor Your ‘Soul Seed’ Needs
We’re going to find the things that make you feel good and light you up! You’ll discover the most fiery, empowered part of you - and let her step in when things get hard, instead of defaulting to old ways that aren’t getting you the results you want.

Step 3: “Beautiful Boundaries” – Summon Your Sovereign ‘Gatekeeper’
In this step you’ll fire up your Gatekeeper archetype – the one who knows how to trust and follow your embodied yeses and nos – so that you’re setting boundaries that support you (and invite in the things that turn you on). You’ll also learn how to “create time” when there seems to be none.

The Result:

This ISN’T surface level “buy red panties” stuff with the same old “get sexy” exercises …

I’m an expert at lovingly and warmly helping you to truly heal all that stands in the way of embracing your authentic sexuality, and I’m going to guide you through a process that will allow you to feel more pleasure and turn on in your life, starting now - and how you can continue to expand your capacity for letting in the good stuff (even if it feels hard to believe, I promise it’s possible)

Step 4: “Empower Your Expressionista” – Let Your Heart Shine.
In this step, you’ll embrace your ‘Expressionista’ archetype – and you’ll discover how to let go of the shame that may be holding you back. You’ll learn to shamelessly share your authentic self, know your authentic self, and proudly be your authentic self (in and out of the bedroom)

Step 5: “Awaken The Body Connection ” – Prance With Your ‘Pollinator’
You’ve begun to bloom – and now your ‘Pollinator’ archetype will emerge! You’ll learn the language of your body and how to gently invite more sensual pleasure into your system – and your life. You’ll create the resourcing rituals, rhythms and pleasure habits to cultivate your aliveness.

Step 6: “Adore Your Anatomy” – Body Love + Anatomy Understanding
Say goodbye to body image issues and negative thoughts about yourself. Learn the amazing and powerful secrets of your anatomy you didn’t learn in school, and how this will transform your relationship to intimacy – and help you love yourself in ways you never imagined.

The Result:

It’s always a shock how, as well educated women , we are never taught what it takes for us to feel pleasure. In this phase you’ll finally get the education you never received so you feel more confident in your body’s capacity to receive pleasure, shamelessly enjoy your body, feel sexier in your skin, and get the igniting, simple sensual self care practices you can seamlessly implement into your schedule to rock your libido.

Step 7: “Seduce Your Sage Out Of Hiding ” – Trust Your Inner Wisdom
Here you’ll meet your ‘Sage’ – and develop the skills to connect to the wisest, most empowered part of yourself. You’ll learn to trust yourself – you’ll know your truth, boldly speak your truth, and feel utterly aligned in your decisions.

Step 8: “Remember What’s True” – Let Go Of Conditioned Beliefs
This is where we’ll UN-learn – so that we can recondition our beliefs. In this step, I’ll guide you through letting go of the unhelpful beliefs and body memories of the past – so you can embrace your sexuality as a vital, sacred, and integrated part of who you are – and remember the truth of your Divine Nature.

Step 9: “Playful Pleasure” – Nourish Yourself With Pleasure
Here, you’ll connect to your ‘Groundskeeper’ archetype – you’ll discover the skills to weed and water your nervous system, how to create rhythms and routines that serve your highest good, how to resiliently face challenges that arise, and how to prioritize your needs in a busy world.

The Result:

A self-assured you, clear and empowered in decision-making, with renewed trust in your instincts. Unleashing your Divine Nature, you'll free yourself from previously unseen limiting beliefs and memories, liberating your sensuality.

This newfound calmness acts as the bedrock for the transformed you, who knows what you need and resiliently surmounts any challenges that come your way.

Step 10: “Explore/Expand Your Sensuality” — Fully Liberate Your ‘Expressionista’
This is the next level of your Expressionista archetype – where you’ll embody the different aspects of sexuality. There are numerous flavors of pleasure, and here you can try them allll on to find what you Love. Discover new pleasure tools to fire up your sexual energy, and expand your pleasure potential and orgasmic capacity.

Step 11: “Healthy Healing” – Regenerating Your Blueprint Of Health
Sometimes we can be “stuck” in patterns that “block” our ability to experience love, sex, and/or relationships the way we desire. (And we might not even be aware of how deeply these patterns are sabotaging us!) As you’re expanding your sensuality we’re going to (gently) explore releasing stored painful or wounding experiences in your body … which will help you to steady your nervous system and balance your body’s reactions to potentially triggering events.

Step 12: “CO-Creation” – Embrace your ‘Sacred Gardener’ Archetype
You are in a sacred relationship to all that is. You listen for and respond to the call of co-creating a healthy ecosystem. In this step, you’ll enjoy increased understanding, empathy, and collaboration; you’ll learn tools for more productive conversations, reduced conflicts or misunderstandings, and overall more fulfilling and beneficial relationships – especially your most intimate one. You’ll learn how to use these tools for epic intimate partnership, taking things from meh to magical in your relationship.

The Result:

Wholeness. Journeying through healthy healing, you'll gently navigate past blockages that have been unknowingly hindering your love, sex, and relationships. As you release these deep-seated patterns, you'll stabilize your nervous system and balance your reactions, fostering a more resilient you.

The power of co-creation that the ‘Sacred Gardener’ archetype brings to bear will help you foster a sacred bond with everything around you, enhancing understanding, empathy, and collaboration. You'll master effective communication tools to minimize conflict, enrich your intimate relationships, and create magical transformations in your intimate partnerships.

Find Your Feminine Fire offers you the master map to reclaim your sensual wholeness - a transformational roadmap to self-renewal and revitalization that you can tap into, time and time again.

Discover your authentic power, and bask in the radiant warmth of your rekindled Feminine Fire!

"Safe, Loving and Non-Judgemental."

Amanda Testa is an incredible coach with a gigantic heart. Every time we have done a session together, the awkwardness and discomfort I have felt around my sexuality melts away.

She holds a kind, compassionate, and gentle space, that always feels safe, completely loving, and non-judgmental. I would absolutely recommend Amanda to anyone who is interested in deepening their relationship to their sexuality and especially exploring the jade egg!

- Claudia

"Body Nourishing, Heart Awakening."

Amanda’s sessions are body nourishing, soul stirring, heart awakening journeys that always leave me feeling more calm, empowered and delightfully alive. Having Amanda hold space for me to take this much needed but sometimes hard to find time for myself is priceless.

I have experienced profound shifts in awakening and understanding my sexuality. I feel more connected to my body and more vibrant and alive. I understand the deep unconscious patterning from my religious upbringing which has caused me to shutdown my authentic sexual expression. Bringing compassionate awareness to this patterning has helped me reawaken my true self and my sexual desire. I'm so grateful for our time together!

- Rachel 

Hello, I’m Amanda Testa. I’m a trusted healer, coach, and guide who’s served hundreds of clients and thousands of students over the years with masterful skills in coaching, pleasure embodiment, and somatic trauma resolution.

My clients tenderly heal their relationship with their sexuality, shamelessly embrace pleasure, own their sexy confidence, and cultivate deeply connected relationships with my fiercely loving (yet gentle and nurturing) support.

When I’m not leading transformative sessions, you can find me snuggling with my spunky kiddo, flirting with my sexy hubs, playing in nature, enjoying live music, and having epic conversations about sex with fellow experts on my Find Your Feminine Fire podcast.

After doing this for a decade (including thousands of hours of training in trauma informed sex and relationship coaching, Somatic Experiencing™, yoni egg coaching, tantric sex coaching, sacred sexuality, energy healing, somatic trauma resolution, psychedelic facilitator training, and more) … I’ve seen time and time again the magic and wisdom of our bodies. We all have the ability to return to our blueprint of health, aliveness, pleasure and sovereignty – and you can too.

With my powerful (and empowering!) support, my clients find their desire and pleasure again, find safety and bliss in their bodies, and remember they are enough just as they are. I want this for you, too!

Imagine yourself six months from now: You feel connected to yourself again. Your sexuality and confidence are thriving … you have your desire back … sex is fun again and you actually enjoy it! You’re confident (your friends are wanting what you’re having) … and it all feels so natural, joyful, and easeful and aligned!

If you can imagine that … Find Your Feminine Fire would be a magnificent fit for you. 

On the other hand …

Find Your Feminine Fire Would NOT Be A Good Fit For You If:

While "Find Your Feminine Fire" is a transformative experience for many, it might not be the right fit for you if:
You recognize the depth of this journey but aren't willing to dive in and confront the challenges holding you back. However, stepping into this space with raw authenticity and an open heart could mark the beginning of your metamorphosis.

There might be deep-seated experiences in your past that could benefit from specialized therapeutic exploration. It's worth noting that many who join us have already navigated significant portions of their healing journey and view this as their crowning chapter.

If you often find yourself chasing the latest trends or get distracted and struggle to maintain focus and consistency, this journey might prove challenging. True transformation often means pacing in harmony with the most tender parts of yourself. Know we always honor that, and go only as fast as the slowest part of you is ready to go.

Being in a space where you can wholly own your experiences and outcomes is crucial. If you're not quite there yet, consider where you stand on your path.

Finally, if the notion of coaching or profound self-investment, whether in terms of time, money, or energy, feels overwhelming, this might not be your moment. But when it is, we're here.

Okay, love, let's get unapologetically real. 

The system wants you to believe that merely surviving is enough. That skirting around, minimizing your desires, and sticking to those age-old scripts is the 'good girl' way. But you and I? We know that's a half-lived story.

Constantly battling with your mind, feeling like an island in your own relationship, feeling unable to tap into pleasure and enjoy the life you’ve created, and being tangled in that web of anxiety and not -enoughness? 

That's not the stuff dreams are made of. And when that cloud of disconnection hangs over your business and other areas of your life, turning your vibrant creativity to grayscale and replacing your fiery spirit with a robotic hum? Well, that's not your story; that's a plot the world handed to you.

But here's the delicious twist: Your 'Feminine Fire' isn't just about that 10-minute self-care ritual shoved into your jam-packed calendar. Oh no. It's about you — a living, breathing manifesto of revolution. 

It's about deep dives into oceans of pleasure, claiming spaces that have always been yours, and painting the town in shades of unabashed presence and connection.

So, if you're ready to rip up the old narrative, sashay away from the expected, and dance fiercely with your dreams... let's pen a new story. One where you're not just a character but the fierce author of every juicy chapter. 

 
​​It's high time you kindled your divine essence and claimed your throne as the unstoppable force you truly are.

Ready to transform? Let's set the world on fire. Together.

When we meet, I’ll ask you a few questions to be sure you’re a good fit for the program. We will have a heart to heart conversation to make sure we’re a fit for one another. We can always talk more deeply to make sure this feels like a HELL YES! And if so, you can get started right away!

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